An update on love and dating

So, my last post about dating was in February 2010 close to Valentine's Day. And as of this posting it has not got any better. I continue to get emails from men 10-20 years older than me and the rare few that are my age are just plain weird.  If I'm not interested, they ask me why.  The few that I was interested in have more baggage than the airport.  The most recent, I'll call me "G" is recently separated, was married over 6 years and the divorce isn't in the near future because of the "cost".  Though he was nice, and we seemed to connect a little I declined to meet him simply because I feel like you need a good year to get over someone.  And I don't want to be rebound girl.  Also, technically he's still married and well, in my eyes that would make me an adulterer.   I've been talking to another one for about a week, but something seems fishy about him.  Plus he only has one picture, and somehow it seems fake too!  Time will tell I guess.  No real connection with him.  No life in his emails.  Somehow it all seems a little too construed.